Why the receiving board gets the small hole

A wood screw is a clamp: the head bears on the top board, the threads pull from the bottom board, and the joint closes because the top board can’t grab the threads. That’s the whole system — clearance hole up top, pilot hole below, countersink if the head sits flush. Get those three diameters from the chart and screws stop splitting rails, wandering off line, and snapping in white oak.

Gauge by gauge details, with the sizes repeated where a phone search can find them: #2 · #3 · #4 · #5 · #6 · #7 · #8 · #9 · #10 · #12 · #14